[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/pohlazeni-versus-pohlavek\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/pohlazeni-versus-pohlavek\/","headline":"Pohlazen\u00ed versus pohlavek","name":"Pohlazen\u00ed versus pohlavek","description":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed nen\u00ed nic jednoduch\u00e9ho. Obvykle m\u00e1me n\u011bjak\u00e9 v\u00fdhrady k\u00a0tomu, jak rodi\u010de vychov\u00e1vali n\u00e1s a nechceme jejich chyby opakovat, bohu\u017eel k\u00a0tomu nev\u011bdomky \u010dasto sklouz\u00e1v\u00e1me. \u010clov\u011bk m\u00e1 v\u00a0sob\u011b zak\u00f3dov\u00e1no v\u00edc, ne\u017e by si n\u011bkdy p\u0159\u00e1l. M\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159istoupit k\u00a0v\u00fdchov\u011b zodpov\u011bdn\u011b a sna\u017eit se na ni p\u0159ipravit. To znamen\u00e1 pro\u010d\u00edtat r\u016fzn\u00e9 knihy, rady a n\u00e1vody, jak na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed ... <a title=\"Pohlazen\u00ed versus pohlavek\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/pohlazeni-versus-pohlavek\/\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Pohlazen\u00ed versus pohlavek<\/span><\/a>","datePublished":"2025-05-16","dateModified":"2025-05-16","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"grubin.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307711_w2095_t1518967990.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a307711_w2095_t1518967990.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/pohlazeni-versus-pohlavek\/","wordCount":458,"articleBody":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed nen\u00ed nic jednoduch\u00e9ho. Obvykle m\u00e1me n\u011bjak\u00e9 v\u00fdhrady k\u00a0tomu, jak rodi\u010de vychov\u00e1vali n\u00e1s a nechceme jejich chyby opakovat, bohu\u017eel k\u00a0tomu nev\u011bdomky \u010dasto sklouz\u00e1v\u00e1me. \u010clov\u011bk m\u00e1 v\u00a0sob\u011b zak\u00f3dov\u00e1no v\u00edc, ne\u017e by si n\u011bkdy p\u0159\u00e1l. M\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159istoupit k\u00a0v\u00fdchov\u011b zodpov\u011bdn\u011b a sna\u017eit se na ni p\u0159ipravit. To znamen\u00e1 pro\u010d\u00edtat r\u016fzn\u00e9 knihy, rady a n\u00e1vody, jak na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed probl\u00e9my, \u010demu se vyvarovat, na co si d\u00e1t pozor. Ale ani sebelep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edru\u010dka a je ot\u00e1zka, jak rozpozn\u00e1me, \u017ee se jedn\u00e1 o dobrou p\u0159\u00edru\u010dku, v\u00e1s nep\u0159iprav\u00ed na realitu. Ono si pak v\u00a0tom presu, tlaku, vyhrocen\u00e9 situaci rychle vzpomenout na to, jak \u017ee to m\u00e1me reagovat, ani dost dob\u0159e nejde. V\u011bt\u0161inou si uv\u011bdom\u00edme a\u017e pot\u00e9, \u017ee na\u0161e reakce t\u0159eba nebyla a\u017e zase tak adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed. Ale to u\u017e b\u00fdv\u00e1 pozd\u011b, to u\u017e se m\u016f\u017eeme na\u0161emu potomkovi pouze omluvit.Na vyhrocen\u00e9 situace prost\u011b ob\u010das dojde, i kdy\u017e se sna\u017e\u00edme sebev\u00edc. Ob\u010das se prost\u011b n\u011bkam sp\u011bch\u00e1, mus\u00edte k\u00a0l\u00e9ka\u0159i, stihnout autobus, b\u00fdt v\u010das v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci a podobn\u011b a va\u0161emu d\u00edtku se zrovna nechce spolupracovat a bojkotuje, co m\u016f\u017ee. Na to d\u011bti maj\u00ed prost\u011b talent. Rozpoznaj\u00ed situace, kdy jejich protesty zrovna nejm\u00e9n\u011b pot\u0159ebujete. A v\u00e1m se zvy\u0161uje hlas a d\u00edtko na v\u00e1s kouk\u00e1 a nech\u00e1pe, pro\u010d k\u0159i\u010d\u00edte. Nebo ch\u00e1pe, ale nic se t\u00edm stejn\u011b nezlep\u0161\u00ed. Tak p\u0159ejdete k\u00a0dal\u0161\u00edmu stupni a pl\u00e1cnete ho p\u0159es zadek, abyste ho rozpohybovali spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. Taky to m\u00e1lokdy pom\u016f\u017ee. Nakonec vl\u00e1\u010d\u00edte \u0159vouc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b n\u00e1sil\u00edm za ruku do auta, kde se snad pak postupn\u011b uklidn\u00ed. Z\u00a0v\u00e1s te\u010de pot a t\u0159esete se vzteky. Na sebe, \u017ee jste to uk\u00e1zkov\u011b nezvl\u00e1dla a na d\u00edt\u011b, \u017ee v\u00e1s do takov\u00e9 situace dostalo.Co se mi v\u00a0takov\u00fdch situac\u00edch osv\u011bd\u010dilo, bylo ob\u011bt\u00ed. Vz\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b do n\u00e1ru\u010de, kr\u00e1tce pomazlit, pohladit a \u0161eptat mu, co n\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1, kam jedeme a pro\u010d a sna\u017eit se na t\u00e9 situaci vymyslet n\u011bco, na co se d\u00edt\u011b m\u016f\u017ee t\u011b\u0161it. Ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f, ale tak\u00e9 ne v\u017edy, se d\u00edt\u011b pak pro cestu nadchlo, za\u010dalo si samo balit hra\u010dky a za\u010dalo spolupracovat. Zkuste to a uvid\u00edte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pohlazen\u00ed versus pohlavek","item":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/pohlazeni-versus-pohlavek\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]