[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/nocni-mura-jmenem-vysvedceni\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/nocni-mura-jmenem-vysvedceni\/","headline":"No\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra jm\u00e9nem vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed","name":"No\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra jm\u00e9nem vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed","description":"Jako ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b, i letos policie upozor\u0148uje rodi\u010de d\u011bt\u00ed, aby je netrestali za \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky a sp\u00ed\u0161e je pochv\u00e1lili za to, co zvl\u00e1dli a v\u00a0\u010dem se zlep\u0161ili. Vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed je toti\u017e pro spoustu d\u011bt\u00ed i rodi\u010d\u016f no\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra, kter\u00e1 je bohu\u017eel re\u00e1ln\u00e1 a \u010dlov\u011bk se z\u00a0n\u00ed nem\u016f\u017ee probudit. Jak reagovat na \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky na vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed? A odm\u011b\u0148ovat ... <a title=\"No\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra jm\u00e9nem vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/nocni-mura-jmenem-vysvedceni\/\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">No\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra jm\u00e9nem vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed<\/span><\/a>","datePublished":"2019-06-12","dateModified":"2019-06-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"grubin.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348432_w1793_t1563101211.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348432_w1793_t1563101211.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/nocni-mura-jmenem-vysvedceni\/","wordCount":449,"articleBody":"Jako ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b, i letos policie upozor\u0148uje rodi\u010de d\u011bt\u00ed, aby je netrestali za \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky a sp\u00ed\u0161e je pochv\u00e1lili za to, co zvl\u00e1dli a v\u00a0\u010dem se zlep\u0161ili. Vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed je toti\u017e pro spoustu d\u011bt\u00ed i rodi\u010d\u016f no\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra, kter\u00e1 je bohu\u017eel re\u00e1ln\u00e1 a \u010dlov\u011bk se z\u00a0n\u00ed nem\u016f\u017ee probudit. Jak reagovat na \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky na vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed? A odm\u011b\u0148ovat ty dobr\u00e9?V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b si mus\u00edte uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee kdy\u017e nejde o \u017eivot tak nejde o nic. Jen\u017ee takov\u00e9 \u0161patn\u00e9 vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed se ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b st\u00e1v\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm bojem o \u017eivot. D\u011bti se boj\u00ed reakce rodi\u010d\u016f a necht\u011bj\u00ed j\u00edt dom\u016f, ut\u00edkaj\u00ed z\u00a0domova \u010di dokonce p\u00e1chaj\u00ed sebevra\u017edy. Pro\u010d? Proto\u017ee doma neust\u00e1le sly\u0161\u00ed pozn\u00e1mky typu: \u201ejestli bude\u0161 m\u00edt trojku tak uvid\u00ed\u0161\u201c, \u201ena dovolenou pojedeme, kdy\u017e bude\u0161 m\u00edt p\u011bkn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky\u201c, \u201epod\u00edvej se na sest\u0159i\u010dku, jak\u00e9 m\u00e1 kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky\u201c, \u201ese \u010dty\u0159kami mi dom\u016f nelez!\u201c a mnohdy i mnohem hor\u0161\u00ed. D\u011bti jsou z\u00a0vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed vystresovan\u00e9 dop\u0159edu a o to h\u016f\u0159e pot\u00e9 \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky nesou. Jak tedy reagovat pokud v\u00e1\u0161 potomek p\u0159ijde dom\u016f se \u0161patn\u00fdmi zn\u00e1mkami?Po d\u00edt\u011bti hlavn\u011b nek\u0159i\u010dte, nevy\u010d\u00edtejte mu to a ned\u00e1vejte mu tresty. Mnohem v\u00edce funguje na d\u011bti takzvan\u00e1 pozitivn\u00ed motivace. Vyzdvihn\u011bte to, v\u00a0\u010dem je d\u00edt\u011b dobr\u00e9 a co mu jde. S\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem si promluvte i o \u0161patn\u00fdch zn\u00e1mk\u00e1ch, zeptejte se ho, zda v\u00ed, pro\u010d jsou \u0161patn\u00e9. Spousta d\u011bt\u00ed se u\u010d\u00ed a i p\u0159es to zn\u00e1mky lep\u0161\u00ed nemaj\u00ed. Mnohdy jsou v\u00a0tom i u\u010ditel\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed si d\u00edt\u011b zafixovali jako trojka\u0159e a u\u017e mu prost\u011b nev\u011bnuj\u00ed tolik pozornosti jako t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed jedni\u010dky. P\u0159ihl\u00e9dn\u011bte tak\u00e9 k\u00a0tomu, co se d\u011blo p\u0159es rok. Hodn\u011b nemocn\u00e9 d\u011bti \u010dasto jen t\u011b\u017eko doh\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1tku.Ani za dobr\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 d\u011bti extra odm\u011b\u0148ovat. Chce to malou odm\u011bnu pro v\u0161echny, za to \u017ee to zvl\u00e1dli a nerozd\u011blovat d\u011bti na ty s\u00a0dobr\u00fdmi a \u0161patn\u00fdmi zn\u00e1mkami. S\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem se samoz\u0159ejm\u011b m\u016f\u017eete domluvit na tom, \u017ee bude p\u0159es l\u00e9to chodit na dou\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed (t\u0159eba 1x v\u00a0t\u00fddnu) aby dohnalo to, co se p\u0159es rok nestihlo nau\u010dit, ale nem\u00e1 cenu k\u00a0tomu d\u011bti nutit.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (3 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"No\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra jm\u00e9nem vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.grubin.cz\/nocni-mura-jmenem-vysvedceni\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]